Dear Bunmi,
A while back, I got together with a
28-year-old man I met through a friend. He’s a very good-looking man and the
sex was mind-blowing. I am 39 and married with three children. It was my friend
through whom I met this guy that told me he would soon be getting married. As
you can imagine, I was devastated. When I asked him, he simply cut off all
contact with me. I’m really hurting. How could he do that to me?
Monalisa, by e-mail.
Dear Monalisa,
What has this toy-boy of yours done
to you that you haven’t done to him? He was only having fun, dating a woman
years older than he is, and so were you.
Or, did you think any permanent
relationship could come off it? If you are serious about this fling, it means
something is seriously wrong with your marriage and you need to address this
urgently.
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