Nigerian men treat their wives as second in
command, they expect their women to be there for them, answer when they call
and they always want to make the final decision... be the man
For a woman... not knowing how to cook is a
serious crime in Nigeria.
Men in Nigeria believe that a woman is
responsible if she is good with domestic works while the ones with very little
knowledge and domestic know-how are considered irresponsible
A Nigerian boy is expected to leave his father's
house at most by the age of 30, fend for himself and build his own home. If he
fails to do so, he would be regarded as an irresponsible man in his own
community; Nigerian men are expected to be independent by thirty at most.
A Nigerian man is very hard-working compared to
his counterparts in Diaspore because
1. The average Nigerian man believes in a family
and the men are expected to take up all the bills at home.
2. The man runs the home irrespective of 'how
much' the wife is worth.
The Nigerian man is a natural hustler, they go
out in the morning and come back in the evening, they don't usually get fed up
with wealth acquisition, that is the one thing American women seem to like so
much about Nigerian men, - That they take responsibility and make sure their
family as well as their woman is well taken care of.
One said "I love the way African men love
their children it is the most beautiful thing I have ever seen, but I can see
the boys are more spoiled, that is the truth."
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